Grief and loss
Make room for the feelings that come with heartbreak.
YOUR PACE. YOUR TERMS.
Coming Back to Yourself
After Heartbreak.
You can grieve them and still choose you. Your story ain't over, actually the good part is just getting started.
You can miss them, mourn the future you pictured, and still make room for yourself. An honest guide through heartbreak, breakups, and loss, with DeeVine’s personal story and small steps to Rest, Release, Reconnect, and Express.
- Seven self-paced readings
- Reflection questions
- Back to Me Ritual Menu
$12.00One-time purchase · Digital PDF
Your pace. Your privacy. No subscription.
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DOES THIS SOUND FAMILIAR?
You get to bring
all of this.
- You’re grieving a relationship, a loss, or the future you imagined.
- You’re starting over and finding your footing one day at a time.
- You want to make room for your needs and boundaries.
- You’re ready for small ways to reconnect with yourself.
LET’S GET SOMETHING STRAIGHT
Your healing gets to move at your own pace.
There is room for grief and for a life that belongs to you. Come back to the readings and reflection tools whenever you need a little support.
THE REAL TALK + THE PRACTICE
Here’s what’s inside.
Personal stories, honest reflection, and tools to return to. Explore the themes and practices in this guide.
Starting over
Read DeeVine’s personal story of rebuilding her life in a new city.
Boundaries and self-trust
Reflect on your needs and the choices that belong to you.
Back to Me Ritual Menu
Explore small steps to Rest, Release, Reconnect, and Express.
When the Grief Starts Griefing Again
Return to a reusable check-in when you need it.
Spiritual Hoochie Homework
Work with reflection questions and Take This With You statements throughout.
WHAT YOU’LL EXPLORE
More room for you.
Room to grieve.
Reflect on what you miss and what you need, without rushing your feelings.
Your own footing.
Explore boundaries, self-trust, and starting over.
Something to return to.
Use a ritual menu and check-in when grief comes around again.
A LOOK INSIDE
Make a little room.
For your own answers.
A closer look at the reflection tools included in the guide.
THE PRACTICE
Back to Me Ritual Menu
An overview of the tools you’ll work with, at your own pace.
- Rest, Release, Reconnect, and Express: four ways to meet yourself where you are.
- Choose from the Back to Me Ritual Menu at your own pace.
- Return to the grief check-in when your feelings need a little room.
Your healing gets to move at your own pace.
THE WHOLE EXPERIENCE
Keep the conversation
going with yourself.
- Seven self-paced readings
- Spiritual Hoochie Homework and reflection prompts
- Back to Me Ritual Menu
- One digital PDF. Yours to return to.
$12.00One-time purchase · Digital PDF
Your pace. Your privacy. No subscription.
The 15% offer applies to eligible merch and scarves, including scarf packs. Books, e-books, the devotional, digital guides, and digital guide bundles are excluded.
THE VOICE BEHIND SPIRITUAL HOOCHIE
DeeVine.
Poet, Rapper, writer, and creator of Spiritual Hoochie. Her work makes room for Black women to be spiritual, sensual, and fully themselves. These guides bring that same honesty to the conversations we have with our bodies, our desires, and our lives.
BEFORE YOU GET INTO IT
A few real answers.
Is this a physical book?
No. This is a digital PDF. Read it on your phone, tablet, or computer, or print reflection pages for your own use.
Do I have to be over the breakup to start?
No. The readings are self-paced. Bring where you are today, take breaks, and return when you want to. There is no healing deadline here.
Do I have to follow a schedule?
No. Read and reflect at your own pace. Return to the tools when they feel useful.
How will I receive the guide?
This is a digital PDF, with no shipping, subscription, or live session. No physical item will be shipped.
What should I know before purchasing?
This is a digital guide. Read the store’s refund policy before buying, and contact us if you have a question.
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