Who Told You Your Body Was a Problem?
Question the rules and opinions you inherited about your body.
FOR THE WOMAN WHO’S DONE ASKING FOR PERMISSION
Being Sensual
Without Shame.
Your body is yours. Your pleasure is yours. So why does everybody else get a damn vote?
A short, honest guide to the messages you inherited, the things you actually enjoy, and the boundaries you get to keep. Spiritual, sensual, sexual, selective—there’s room for the whole woman.
- Six chapters
- Fillable reflections
- Seven-day homecoming
$12.00One-time purchase · Digital PDF
Your pace. Your privacy. No subscription.
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DOES THIS SOUND FAMILIAR?
You get to want
a different conversation.
- You like yourself—and still catch an old voice telling you to cover up, calm down, or be respectable.
- You’re curious about pleasure, but want the choices to belong to you.
- You want to express desire without treating your boundaries like an inconvenience.
- You’re ready to enjoy your own life without performing for somebody else’s approval.
LET’S GET SOMETHING STRAIGHT
You don’t have to be desirable to be deserving of pleasure.
This guide makes room for feeling yourself, figuring yourself out, and having a quiet day in your favorite pajamas. You don’t have to perform liberation for anybody.
THE REAL TALK + THE PRACTICE
We’re going there.
Six conversations worth having with yourself. Each one comes with Spiritual Hoochie Homework to help you make it personal.
Sensual Ain’t Synonymous With Sexual
Notice pleasure through your senses, with no audience required.
This Body Is Mine, Not a Public Discussion
Make room for your preferences, privacy, and bodily autonomy.
Just Because I Want It Doesn’t Mean I Owe It
Let desire and boundaries exist in the same conversation.
Girl, You Can Want to Fuck.
Talk honestly about sexuality, solo pleasure, and choosing for yourself.
Pleasure Without Performance
Enjoy your life without turning every good feeling into a show.
WHAT YOU’LL EXPLORE
More room for you.
Your own voice.
Recognize inherited messages and decide which ones still belong in your life.
Your preferences.
Notice what you enjoy through your senses, without needing a partner or an audience.
Your boundaries.
Put language to your yes, your no, and the things you’re still figuring out.
A LOOK INSIDE
Read a little.
Feel something.
Real pages. Real talk. A little Spiritual Hoochie Homework. Open a page and get a feel for the guide.
Swipe through on your phone, or open any page for a closer look. The guide’s reflection spaces are fillable in a compatible PDF reader.
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Who Told You Your Body Was a Problem?
Who Told You Your Body Was a Problem? Let's talk about where that shame came from.
Sensual Ain’t Synonymous With Sexual
Somewhere along the way, sensuality got reduced to red lingerie, bedroom eyes, and slow-motion videos of women rubbing oil on their thighs. And listen, I love a good body oil moment. But sensuality is so much bigger than looking like somebody's fantasy. Sensuality is about your senses.
The way your favorite song makes you move before you even realize you’re dancing. The smell of fresh sheets. The first bite of some food so good you gotta close your eyes. Sunlight hitting your skin. A long shower after an even longer day.
The feeling of being completely present in your body instead of mentally running through tomorrow's to-do list. That's sensuality too, baby. And what's beautiful about it is that you don't need an audience. Nobody has to compliment you. Nobody has to desire you. Nobody even has to know what you're doing.
The inheritance audit
Finish these three sentences. Growing up, I was taught that women who expressed their sensuality were… One belief about my body or sexuality that I've carried into adulthood is… If I were free to decide for myself, I would choose to believe…
Take This With You
Your sensuality isn't a show you put on. It's a relationship you have with being alive.
TRY A LITTLE SPIRITUAL HOOCHIE HOMEWORK
The Inheritance Audit
Before you decide what belongs to you, notice what was handed to you. These are three of the prompts you can type into in the guide.
- Growing up, I was taught that women who expressed their sensuality were…
- One belief about my body or sexuality that I've carried into adulthood is…
- If I were free to decide for myself, I would choose to believe…
Some of the shame you’re carrying was handed to you before you were old enough to question it. You’re allowed to put it down.
THE HOOCHIE HOMECOMING
Seven invitations.
Your pace.
Take seven days or seven weeks. These are small ways to be in your body and your life without turning pleasure into another job.
- 01The body check
- 02Feed your senses
- 03Shake something
- 04Wear that shit
- 05Say what you want
- 06Private pleasure
- 07Make your own rules
THE WHOLE EXPERIENCE
Keep the conversation
going with yourself.
- Six chapters of real talk
- Spiritual Hoochie Homework and reflection prompts
- A seven-day homecoming, at your own pace
- One digital PDF. Yours to return to.
$12.00One-time purchase · Digital PDF
Your pace. Your privacy. No subscription.
The 15% offer applies to eligible merch and scarves, including scarf packs. Books, e-books, the devotional, digital guides, and digital guide bundles are excluded.
THE VOICE BEHIND SPIRITUAL HOOCHIE
DeeVine.
Poet, Rapper, writer, and creator of Spiritual Hoochie. Her work makes room for Black women to be spiritual, sensual, and fully themselves. These guides bring that same honesty to the conversations we have with our bodies, our desires, and our lives.
BEFORE YOU GET INTO IT
A few real answers.
Is this a physical book?
No. This offer is a digital PDF guide. Read it on a phone, tablet, or computer, or print the reflection pages for your own use.
Do I have to be sexually active?
No. There is room here for desire, abstinence, low desire, questioning, and simply wanting to feel more present. Nothing in this guide requires a partner or a particular kind of sexual experience.
Is the seven-day homecoming a deadline?
Take seven days, seven weeks, or the pace that fits your life. The practices are invitations. Skip anything you do not want to explore.
Can I type into the pages?
Yes. The guide includes type-in reflection spaces. Download it and open it in a PDF reader that supports fillable forms, then save your completed copy. Browser previews and some phone viewers may not save form entries reliably. You can also print the reflection pages or write in your own journal.
How will I receive the guide?
This is a digital PDF, with no shipping, subscription, or live session. No physical item will be shipped.
What should I know before purchasing?
This is a digital guide. Read the store’s refund policy before buying, and contact us if you have a question.
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